Entries by Michael Curtis

S is for Sexuality Part I

C is for Conquest H is for Hierarchy A is for Authority I is for Insight R is for Relationship S is for Sexuality In almost every workshop or study I have attended regarding marriage, sexuality has been discussed.  Usually, it is discussed last and seldom is it given the time required to fully understand a subject of such depth.  I […]

R is for Relationship

C is for Conquest H is for Hierarchy A is for Authority I is for Insight R is for Relationship One of the highest indicators of marital success is whether or not a couple are friends.  When you dated you showed interest in his hobbies, spent time with him in different activities, and in general, […]

I is for Insight

C is for Conquest H is for Hierarchy A is for Authority I is for Insight One of my favorite video’s is “It’s Not About the Nail.”  Watch it and then return to this post. Hilarious and true.  But here is the thing, sometimes it is about the nail.  Sometimes a wife wants a listening […]

H is for Hierarchy

It is important in a Christian marriage to recognize the Hierarchy that God has put into place.  Read just a few scriptures related to marriage and you will see that the man is assigned by God to be the head of the family.  It is important to realize this is not an assessment of value. […]


It has been a couple of weeks since the Workshop where we discussed what respect looks like to a man.  If you remember, during the workshop we used the acronym CHAIRS: C – Conquest H – Hierarchy A – Authority I – Insight R – Relationship S – Sexuality Conquest Today let’s visit conquest, the […]


Do you trust your husband?  I know you probably did at one time because you married him.  Often times the trust that was once present has been eroded by bad decisions, angry outbursts, selfish acts, and sheer stupidity.  The problem is that really great marriages are built on a foundation of trust and often times, […]