We’ve all heard the advice: “Say five kind things for every one criticism.” It sounds like wisdom—because it is. But is it science? Dr. John Gottman’s groundbreaking marriage research found that couples who thrive tend to have at least five positive interactions for every one negative during conflict. This 5:1 ratio became famous—often cited as […]
I love my wife; deeply, sincerely, and passionately. What’s more, I like Patty. She is smart, inquisitive, intelligent, empathetic, and loving. She has an amazing heart and is giving beyond belief. Patty likes me too, most of the time. I can be grumpy, isolative, and opinionated at times. However, I have hopefully learned to navigate […]
In a world bustling with distractions and rapid pace, finding moments of connection is vital for maintaining strong relationships. An almost magical practice for ensuring the connection between a husband and wife is the seven-second kiss – a simple yet powerful gesture that can transform intimacy and foster deeper bonds between partners. The concept is […]
The Bible is full of scriptures that encourage us to correct each other when we fall into the traps of sin, to challenge each other to grow in grace and knowledge, and to sharpen each other in our walk with Christ. However, a wise woman seeking to respect her husband considers when, where, and how […]
Once you understand the purpose and power behind marriage, it is valuable to understand the differences between how men and women communicate. After 38 years of marriage, I am still amazed at how many words Patty uses on an average day. It is estimated that the average woman uses 15,000 words in a day. In contrast, a man is lucky if he uses 5,000.
I recently heard a podcast from our friends at Fierce Marriage concerning scripture and marriage which motivated me to think a little deeper about what scripture says about a believer’s marriage. I personally love the science behind marriage; communication, sexuality, emotion, etc. However, as believers, we need a strong understanding of what scripture has to say about covenant marriage.